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  Change is the one thing we are all seeking that scares us the most. The older we get, the less that we want to change. And yet it is the very time that change is most needed.  
     
  I have developed a term called "Changeaholic." It describes the "Change Junkie" who cannot get enough of the thrill of change in his or her veins. However, planned change is the safest form of change. It makes each of us the Master Of Our Own Destiny.  
     
  How do you change when you have tried everything? The first thing you do is to review your previous efforts. Write them down and list the pluses and minuses of what you did. Also list those things that you did not do but now wish that you had done.  
     
  The next thing that you do is to ask yourself this Miracle Question: "If I woke up tomorrow and the change that I am seeking had, in fact, occurred, what differences would I notice in myself, in my thoughts, my feelings, my actions, my life circumstances, and my relationships, at work, at home or wherever I might be."  
     
  The difference between where your life is now and where it is after the Miracle Question is the change that you are seeking. Go for it! Our Self-Help Store has a self-help program to help you begin the process of change. If you don't know how, click on this link--Click for Personal Change Now! If you'd like to ask me a question about personal change in your life, email me today.  
     
  Thanks for visiting our web site.  
     
  John Garlock, Ph.D., LPC, LMFT, LCDC, CEAP